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  • Debrajoe

    As a Marxist I find gender questions uninteresting. So we are switching from a patriarchy to a matriarchy, but economic oppression is still the order we live under. One always hopes the once oppressed learn but they never seem to. Let’s hope people one day free themselves of gender and class.

  • Paul

    If we’re talking about the current age of information, then yes. As a man I see women performing better with their natural skills of multitasking and networking, all with less ego attached. Men perform better when the economy is better.

  • Steve in Esocndido

    Two things. The most important is the war on men that has been conducted for the past 40 years. There is no war on women – it is on men. At first it was about equality but as always it becomes about power and money. Men need to either take Garrison Keeler’s advice (the book of Guys) and let women sustain and build on all that men have built and go camping – or start speaking up instead of remining so affable. That’s what women did. The second reason women are taking it all over is that job tasks today fit well with natural proclivities of women like the ability to multi-task.

  • Master D.

    IT true that women have more advantages in the economy than men, the reason is simple men has more war on them than the women, take for example when there is a vacancy at a jobs site the possibility of women getting the job is 95% while men is 75%. and also Democracy states and gender equality contribute mostly, even in school these day when there is a scholarship the ratio of boys to girls is one (1) to four (4).

  • Gina

    no. i dont know how it is in us, but i live in Dubai and they both are equal. but if you take some countries for example Saudi don’t give any freedom and keep them confined in their houses only. even in India women are scared to go out on their own or in the night because they are scared they will get raped. the rape statistics of India is 23000, america 85,000 but these are only the reported ones. women are confined to the kitchen in some parts of Pakistan so how can there be a rise of women? feminism is not even known by many in Asia these movements are only there in the modernized countries. as a feminist i talk to my friends about all these things and they don’t even care. (p.s im 14).

  • roller203

    no, its not a question of men or women. may be its a question of communication skills and this is a difficult lesson for women AND men together. now you were in berlin. lets read the book obschernitzki “der frau ihre arbeit!”. same questions we had also 100 years ago.

  • Luripompa

    Not sure my reply is related to the economy per se, but there is an easy general answer. Women get more breaks than men. If women get access to all channels and niches that men used to inhabit more or less exclusively, like during the last 40-50 years, that only means they can play both ends of the spectrum. They can both play vulnerable and competitive and switch between the two modes according to whatever gives the greatest benefits at the moment. Men can never afford to look vulnerable, as this would only translate into disrespect from other men and – a lot more important – no relative in group status and mating opportunities among women.

    So essentially, men are confined to a narrow set of roles, and if you cut away on this small piece of land to stand on, sure, men are going to start falling off the cliff.

    Rosin has also mentioned Sweden as a possible solution to the male gender role problem. No less, she is deluded about this. Sure enough, (ethnically) Swedish men have to a large extent taken to an effeminate role just in order to survive socially. Sometimes this can be a strategy that pays off in terms of creating and managing family life.

    However, the prescription is not without its side effects. Increasingly during the last 20-30 years or so, young men – often the product of raving feminist upbringings themselves – are turning into mental eunuchs and/or just lose interest in the game, as it becomes increasingly less worthwhile to play. The end result is a world full of reasonably successful women, but without any men left worthwhile enough to choose from.

    Sweden today has one of the lowest demographic replacement rates in the world if you count the ethnic Swedish population. It’s only pushed up to higher levels due to massive immigration from the Mid East and Africa, leading to resource competition, huge financial and human costs, push out effects and a severe strain on the social fabric, not to mention a culture of institutional mendacity, collective silence and democratic totalitarianism to counteract a seething resentment with the direction things are going.

    It’s not a solution. It’s a dead end. I ought to know, I have to live here and cope with a reality of virulent walking on eggshells every day of my life.

    • Christine

      “One of the great crime stories of the last twenty years,
      meanwhile, is the dramatic decline of rape and sexual assault. Between 1993 and 2008, the rate of those crimes against females declined by 70 percent” (pg 19) and “The most dramatic declines occurred in acquaintance rape. Those changes particularly are directly related to women’s recent economic success” (Rosin, p 19).

      True. There has been a “decline of rape and sexual assault,”
      according to what is being measured. Dozens and dozens of research based work will tell you why that is so.

      – The Victorian Law Reform Commission states that rape has the lowest reporting rate of any crime (VLRC, 2004)

      – The British Crimes Survey found that approximately 15% of rapes were reported to police, with 40% of victims never disclosing the crime to anyone

      – This happens because of “fear of being disbelieved; fear of retribution by the offender or others connected to the offender; feelings of shame; embarrassment; living in an isolated environment; fear of being blamed; lack of confidence or
      trust in the legal system; and lack of confidence or trust in police (Taylor and Gassner, pg 241).

      – Amnesty International recently reported that a third of UK respondents in their study believed that a woman is partially if not fully responsible for being raped (pg 242).

      – The FBI’s Uniform Crime Report (UCR) definition of rape does not even cover any form of sexually coercive rape and completely discounts males raping males. Most rape happens with someone that is known to the victim. “ If we consider mutually desired and consensual sexual intercourse at one end of the spectrum,
      and forcible rape of the other, there is a wide ranger of sexual interactions falling between these two extremes” ( Broach, Petretic, p1) Sexual coercion is completely bypassed and rape becomes polarized, leaving only women o f“legitimate rape,” as victims and discounting so many others.

      – “The Baltimore Sun reported that, since 1992, the number of Baltimore rape cases reported to the FBI has declined by 80% and, since 1991, the percentage of unfounded rape cases has tripled. From 2003 to 2010, police wrote reports for only 4 in 10 rape calls, signifying that patrol officers were rejecting cases
      prior to investigation (Women’s Law Project Transcript, 2010)

      – The St. Louis Post-Dispatch, reported that many St. Louis rape complaints were written up in informal memos, not counted in crime statistics, and then filed away for 1-2 years before being shredded, often before the statute of limitations had run out. The city’s official rape tally declined during the 20 year period that the “memo” system was in place (Women’s Law Project
      Transcript, 2010).

      “The individual and accumulated weight of the aforementioned barriers ad negative public perceptions of sexual assault contribute to an under-reporting that is currently being referred to as
      the ‘hidden’ prevalence of sexual assault (Neam and Heenan 2003).”

      I just got my hands into research, going back to school, and plan on getting certified at my local women’s shelter to be of service on their crisis line. I went back to your book as a reference
      for a paper and was shocked to read what you had written.

      I hope you would consider all the research that is available out there before affirming the above claim. I enjoyed your book, especially about how adaptable women are. Our high social
      intelligence will take us far. Citing statistics on the decline of rape is a delusion. Sexual assault and rape is a massive epidemic right now and it will not be ignored.

  • jocelym46

    I think this book is premature on this issue. Women are a long way from equality in our society. It is the same idea that because we have a Black President we are now a post-racial society. Women are still being paid less for the same work, suffering domestic violence and rape.

  • M1979

    I think it’s hard to take this author seriously about anything after reading some of what she’s written.

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